
Recovery
FAQ
This list will grow as people ask more questions—
Why are
you using Celebrate Recovery? Because it is a useful
tool. First, there are those among us who are in the
traditional fellowships and who find that we are
strengthened both in our recovery and our walk with the
Lord by getting together with fellow believers who are
also in recovery. Second, we view it as an additional
way to reach out to people who need to be in recovery,
who won't go to a traditional meeting, but who will
come to "church." Third, we see it as a means to lead
others in recovery who don't know Jesus to Him.
Do you
also use methods other than Celebrate Recovery?
Yes.
Such
As? Individual counseling is
available. Call (410) 848-1064, ext. 2, for more
information. We also cooperate with the traditional
fellowships such as Alcoholics Anonymous and the
Al-Anon Family Groups.
Are you
affiliated with AA? No, we are not. AA, NA,
Al-Anon, and the other traditional Twelve Step
fellowships "are not affiliated with any sect,
denomination, political entity, organization, or
institution." We respect their desire for a
single-purpose independence. However, we do encourage
and cooperate with the traditional fellowships. For
instance, we are pleased to make our building available
to AA and Al-Anon for meetings.
Do I
really have to do all the Steps? No, you don't
have
to. But before
you decide to pick and choose among them, consider
this: Only about 3 to 5 % of people who "try" AA (as an
example) by attending a few meetings and sorta/kinda
doing some work have a successful recovery. On the
other hand, AA members who get with the program, get a
sponsor, and work the Steps as suggested have a much
better success rate. About half achieve long-term
sobriety. About half of the rest may fall off the wagon
but manage to get back to sobriety. How healthy do you
want to get?
Do I have
to join a traditional fellowship too?
No, you
don't have
to. But before
you decide, consider this: Those of us who have been in
recovery for a long while value the support we find in
organizations like AA and NA. We suggest that you get
involved with a fellowship that addresses your specific
need. Celebrate Recovery is a great tool, but it's
generic. A codependent has some things in common with a
victim of child abuse, and they both share common
problems with a drug addict, but they each have needs
unique to their situation. Each will benefit from the
experience, strength, and hope of those who have
struggled with the similar issues.
Where can
I find a sponsor? Go to different meetings
and listen. You'll find someone who has been there,
done that, and has the t-shirt ... and who seems to
speak from his heart in ways that touch you. Such a
person is a good candidate for your sponsor.
What's
the differences among religious, spiritual, and secular
recovery programs? A religious
program is one
that is based on a particular religious view of its
Higher Power. Our program is religious; our Higher
Power is Jesus. A spiritual
program is one
that suggests that belief in a Higher Power is
necessary, but does not require a particular
understanding of God. A traditional fellowship with a
Third Step such as AA's which refers to "God
as we
understood Him" would be an example of
such a program. A secular
program is one
with no spiritual component whatsoever. These program
do not use the Twelve Steps or water them down so as to
make them meaningless.